If you have had a difficult time separating, please know I am not going to profess expertise in protecting yourself physically. This topic is a bit of a segway (segue I have seen it spelt?) to my previous, but where I find I am having a lot of success in my kinesiology practice. More and more I find myself working with children in split toxic relationships and we have come to realise that children are affected on so many levels…
Case study
Child comes home from a weekend with dad who has incredible hatred for his exx. Child lashes out at mum, behaviour out of control….
How familiar does this sound? What’s gotten into you? What’s dad (or mum) been feeding you?
So how do I know it’s not just food colouring influencing behaviour?
In this example, after clearing the child from the energetic ties to dad, then clearing what he had brought home – dad’s hate, dad’s anger…After clearing the negative energy attaching itself and working through that child…we were sitting outside on the grass as the child talked about how peaceful nature was …calm, happy, peaceful child.
How? Why is this even possible?
We are all energy – energetic beings. We are emotional beings. Our energy and emotion is not just carried within us, but extends far beyond our physical body and felt by others (check out the Heart-map website for some awesome research). We feel it, we pick it up and we carry it (how much does a depressing person drag you down?). Kids pick up our stuff even more so because they WANT to – they want to help us. They want us to love them and will take our toxic rubbish to prove their love and seek ours. For so many reason, kids are really great at collecting it all and being overwhelmed by it = a child with “behavioural issues”. A child in this kind of overwhelm can lash out in a variety of ways and I’m sure you already know those of your own kids better than anyone.
If I’ve lost you at this point, that’s completely fine. Just know that the change in a child when we clear them is almost instant, like flipping a switch.
What can I do?
So what can you do? Yes, you can find an awesome kinesiologist/energy practitioner and get some help, of course. But more than anything we need to empower our kids to learn to protect and clear themselves. If you’d like to learn this in detail please get in touch. As a first step, ask your child what they find cleansing and work with that – if they love water – get them to picture washing everything away under a waterfall. Cliched? Perhaps. Did I mention the shifts can be almost instantaneous? If this isn’t working for you, please get in touch. Seriously.
What is kinesiology?
So what is kinesiology? Kinesiology is simply using a muscle-response to answer the question of what is there when we cannot consciously identify what is going on. We know that kids will most likely not understand why they are acting the way they are, but even as adults we are only aware of 10% of what is going on for us consciously …that’s a whole lot of 90 that is remaining out of our conscious awareness.
I know this is a super sensitive challenging topic for so many who have been there. I pray this information only helps you and your precious little ones in some small way. Love and light xx